Agnes-- Presumably the pastor allowed it because the deceased was a baseball fan of Irish heritage. Rather than become confrontational over what was probably a well-intentioned concession to a grieving family, I recommend presenting the pastor with constructive suggestions for how to accommodate grief-stricken families while still preserving the dignity of the funeral (either with a Mass or without a Mass). For example, you might recommend that he suggest to families that such songs be played at a wake for the deceased instead of at the funeral. Michelle Arnold
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