Converting and Confession

Converting and Confession
Question from Anon on 3/6/2008:

Background: I was born and raised Presbyterian. I met my husband (who was born and raised Catholic) 7 years ago. I have been attending Mass with him and have been practicing the religion since I met him. He was previously married and just last week received his annulment. I received nullification of past marriage. I will be brought into the church with the Easter vigil and we will also convalidate our marriage. I attended RCIA classes and have been reading quite a bit of literature to prepare for my first confession, communion, confirmation and convalidation. We met with our parish Priest last night to fill out the paperwork for our convalidation. My question regarding my first confession. Almost 20 years ago I (very stupidly) had an abortion. I was pretty much talked into it by relatives. I have felt "dead" inside ever since. I especially feel "dead" inside after RCIA classes and learning how it is a mortal sin. Also, I had a tubaligation years ago; again, mortal sin! I have been living in agony and wanting to confess my sins for a VERY long time. Growing up Presbyterian (and blind to a lot of sin), will I be forgiven? If so, what is an example of penance for such horrible sins?
Answer by David Gregson on 5/5/2008:

Presumably you will have made your first Confession by this time. But to answer your question for the sake of any who may find themselves in a similar situation, there is no sin that God will not forgive, if we truly repent. (The sin against the Holy Spirit is a separate case, because it involves refusing the grace to repent.)

Of course, repenting of a sin includes the intention to undo what we have done, so far as it is possible. An abortion can't be undone, but you can pray for the soul of the aborted baby, that God, in His mercy, will receive him/her into His kingdom. Without Baptism, we have no guarantees, but we can always appeal to God's mercy.

I would also contact Rachel's Vineyard for help in dealing with your loss.

As for your tubal ligation, I don't know if that can be undone. That's something you should discuss with your priest and your doctor.